August 24, 2010

HOW TO LOVE


Love is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.
In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human
kindness, compassion, and affection.
In religious context, love is not just a virtue,
but the basis for all being ("God is love"), and the foundation for all
divine law (Golden Rule). The word love can refer to a variety of
different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic
pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction
("I love my wife").

"Love" can also refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy
of romantic love, to the sexual love of Eros (cf. Greek words for love),
to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that
defines friendship, to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love.
This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the
feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define,
even compared to other emotional states. While there are many different
ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone
(or even yourself).

Here is a general guide to loving :
A) Say it - have a special mean of the word "i love you" rather than
saying it without any feeling. it is because this words show that we are really
loving someone. this words is not just specific to
our loving partner.
we can says these word to our parents,
siblings, friends, lecturers, co-workers and anyone.

B) Empathize - the main point is we must understand
each others at any situation. avoid negative thinking about your
love person. Rather than impose we own expectation it would be better
to ask them personally.
when we sincerely love
someone we will get back the love.


As conclusion, a person can be said to love an object, principle,
or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it.
Similarly, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' "love"
of their cause may sometimes be borne not of interpersonal love,
but impersonal love coupled with both and strong political convictions.
People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they
invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things.



sources of summary : www.wikihow.com


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